Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Friends or no friends??
Hi loves =) Well i might not be posting as much as I want to but I'am trying to keep up with my blog, I've been really busy with all kinda stuff but anyways :) What i want to talk(write)about today is: "Friendship" Most of us have or had someone in their lives who we actually think/believe is or friend but also people who we hang out with and just concider someone who you just have funn with and then see if there's a friendship. But when do u concider someone your friend?? Do we need to know the person really well before calling him/her your friend? Is there any time attached to when u can concider someone a friend?? Or do you just concider someone automatically your friend because youve hanged out a couple of times?? So I have been asking my self some of these questions the last couple of weeks and i have come to the conclussion that everyone is different and everyone deals with friendship on their own way. Like for me for example I've known so many people while living in curacao and the netherlands and so many of them who I personally concidered my 'friends'. Some of them after a while u wont even hear of them anymore and some of them you know even if you dont speak with them for years you know they will always be there :) But what about the people who concider you a friend while u dont concider them a friend? Well.. Sometimes it can be like that and then you ask yourself how did that hAppen?? And then again the answer, everybody is different and everyone has their own time pace when it comes to calling someone a friend. But then again some people are just crazy by getting mad cause u didnt concider them friends while they did. And how do we deal these kind of persons?? Well i might not hAve an answer for that but what i do is just go with the flow and live by your own rules and not theirs. If u hurted someone on purpose then karma will come back around and if not well then u'll be sorry but atleast didnt go kuku nuts by trying to please them on their ideal perspective of friendship. Let me know what ur thoughts are about friendship.
Posted by PuiFong Wong at 5:47 AM